Marriage tribalism

Marriage tribalism
Now I really need to emphasize on this
situation because it’s becoming a painstaking
issue. Perhaps you don’t know I’m NIGERIAN
and trust me I’m proud of that.
Have you noticed that in some cultures in West
Africa especially Nigeria,many cultures still
don’t allow their kids to marry from another
tribe and these has left most ladies single even
at age 40. The first daughters of most families
suffer this a lot, this is because such parents
insist on following tradition (Even in 21st
Century….abeg its a wake up call).
Should we follow this type of tradition and
allow our children suffer, even when they find
“love” from another tribe? Parents should
understand that it is happiness that is the
utmost and not where the person comes from.
Lets read of the case of Chukwudi a medical
doctor who is in love with Bimpe a Lawyer , He
being the first of seven children is expected to
marry from within their locality, his parents
have vehemently refused to grant him
permission to marry Bimpe, all because she is
a yoruba girl. This year makes it their fourth
year in courtship. The two lovers have refused
to give up on love and affection but cannot
come out openly all in the name of TRIBALISM.
Bimpe’s parents also have the tribalism issue
saying she has to marry a yoruba man (all na
formality sha).
Anyways, my point is for how long do we have
to keep our children’s happiness on hold? Must
we marry someone from our village? Love for
me is the most important and where you find it
doesn”t really matter.
What’s your contribution?


9 Ways to sexually arouse your man

Tired of your man’s lack lustre libido? Want him to make passionate love to you? Follow these nine stimulation techniques to pep up your man’s sexual appetite. Couple in love.jpg

1. Tie Him Up: Take control and get your man all tied up. Buy silky tights to tie him up loosely to the bed post above his head. Keep his head propped up with a pillow so that he can see your wild moves. All guys love being dominated and you will get a high by watching your guy’s desire for you rise.

2. Wet Pleasures: Guys just love making out in the shower. Kissing under a shower is a sure fire way of getting the sexual action kick started. Work up lather and sensuously wash each others’ bodies. It will leave you feeling fresh for the real action to follow.

3. Girlie Groping: Ignite your youthful lust by making out in the last row of a cinema or indulging in some heavy petting on the couch until you are both hot and ready.

4. Dress it up: Walk around the house clad in lacy underwear and some killer stilletoes. Your man will love nothing more than to watch you strut sexily around the house.

5. Dirty dancing: Erotic slow dancing is great tool of seduction. Enjoy a sensual dance which is the perfect appetiser for some raunchy bedroom antics.

6. Mirror image: Learn to master body language techniques to let him know you are interested in sex. Try and mimick some of his actions to turn him on. Don’t copy everything he does. Instead if he leans towards you, lean into him at the same time, making passionate eye contact all the while.

7. Maximise a massage: Make your man lie down on the bed and apply warm oil on his aching body. Use lingering sensuous strokes along his back and down his legs making sure his body relaxes.

8. In the outdoors: Foreplay doesn’t need to be restricted to the bedroom; all men love sex in the open. Make love under the stars and land in sexual heaven.

9. Teasing talk: Men too love a bit of naughty talk. Whisper sweet nothings into his ear describing all the things you would like to do to him, or have him do to you. Alternatively send him a sexy SMS letting him know he is in for a treat.


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